There is a couple sitting in a fancy restaurant and the woman initially seems cold and distant, a little snotty. The waitress brings over some wine but it isn’t to the woman’s liking because it isn’t more expansive. She’s realized someone she really wants to like her is sitting nearby, but after looking at her partner she also realizes how she’s behaving. So she opens the wine, pouring some for both of them. She is surprised at how much she enjoys the wine, and her and her partner seem to be having a wonderful time. She’s laughing and pouring another drink until she sees he’s started to guzzle the drinks down. She tells him to slow down and he smiles and nods but continues his behavior. She tells him she won’t give him more until he slows down. He seems to listen but then he starts feeling really sick and the woman helps him to the bathroom. The men in the bathroom won’t let them in so she instead makes them kick out the trash can. He pukes into that, apologizing profusely. He was upset and jealous of the person the woman wanted to impress. She lets her hair down from a tight bun and chuckles to him. Saying she’s sorry to make him feel that way, and that the only person who’s opinion matter to her, aside from her own, are his. She says she loves him, he says it back. The dream ends.
In this dream, the fancy restaurant and the couple are symbolic of a relationship and the dynamics within it. The initial cold and distant behavior of the woman reflects a certain attitude she may have towards others or a desire to impress someone in particular. The wine symbolizes enjoyment and relaxation, and by pouring it for both herself and her partner, it suggests a desire for connection and intimacy in the relationship.
However, the partner's behavior of guzzling the drinks down represents a lack of self-control or perhaps an unhealthy coping mechanism. This behavior leads to him feeling sick and needing assistance. The men in the bathroom preventing access symbolize external forces or obstacles that may hinder the couple's progress. The woman's flexibility in finding an alternative solution highlights her resourcefulness and commitment to supporting her partner.
The moment when she lets her hair down and apologizes to her partner signifies a release of control and a willingness to show vulnerability. By confessing that she values his opinion the most, she affirms her love and commitment to him. The dream ends with a declaration of love from both partners, suggesting a resolution and a strengthening of their bond.
Overall, this dream seems to be reflecting on the dynamics of a relationship, including potential insecurities, the desire to impress others, and the importance of open communication and mutual understanding. It highlights the potential for growth and connection if both partners are willing to address their behaviors and prioritize their relationship.